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thehealthywarrior:

Britain’s first black marchioness

Okay y’all. 

This is: Emma McQuiston

And as that says, she’s this first black marchioness Britain has ever had. 

But she’s not the only black royal

but THIS IS A BIG DEAL.

plus she’s getting snubbed like big time. The groom’s father didn’t even come. And she said things like: 

she has been snubbed by the British elite because of her ethnicity and background

SO REBLOG IT, CAUSE SHE’S GORGEOUS AND EVERYONE SHOULD LOVE HER.

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“I think one thing you can do to help your friends who are depressed is to reach out to them not in the spirit of helping, but in the spirit of liking them and wanting their company. “I’m here to help if you ever need me” is good to know, but hard to act on, especially when you’re in a dark place. Specific, ongoing, pleasure-based invitations are much easier to absorb. “I’m here. Let’s go to the movies. Or stay in and order takeout and watch some dumb TV.” “I’m having a party, it would be really great if you could come for a little while.” Ask them for help with things you know they are good at and like doing, so there is reciprocity and a way for them to contribute. “Will you come over Sunday and help me clear my closet of unfashionable and unflattering items? I trust your eye.” “Will you read this story I wrote and help me fix the dialogue?” “Want to make dinner together? You chop, I’ll assemble.” “I am going glasses shopping and I need another set of eyes.” Remind yourself why you like this person, and in the process, remind them that they are likable and worth your time and interest.

Talk to the parts of the person that aren’t being eaten by the depression. Make it as easy as possible to make and keep plans, if you have the emotional resources to be the initiator and to meet your friends a little more than halfway. If the person turns down a bunch of invitations in a row because (presumably) they don’t have the energy to be social, respect their autonomy by giving it a month or two and then try again. Keep the invitations simple; “Any chance we could have breakfast Saturday?” > “ARE YOU AVOIDING ME BECAUSE YOU’RE DEPRESSED OR BECAUSE YOU HATE ME I AM ONLY TRYING TO HELP YOU.” “I miss you and I want to see you” > “I’m worried about you.” A depressed person is going to have a shame spiral about how their shame is making them avoid you and how that’s giving them more shame, which is making them avoid you no matter what you do. No need for you to call attention to it. Just keep asking. “I want to see you” “Let’s do this thing.” “If you are feeling low, I understand, and I don’t want to impose on you, but I miss your face. Please come have coffee with me.” “Apology accepted. ApologIES accepted. So. Gelato and Outlander?””

#613: How do I reach out to my friends who have depression? | Captain Awkward

P.S. A lot of people with depression and other mental illnesses have trouble making decisions or choosing from a bunch of different options. “Wanna get dinner at that pizza place on Tuesday night?” is a LOT easier to answer than “So wanna hang out sometime? What do you want to do?”

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queerasfuck88:

Jon Stewart Goes After Fox in Powerful Ferguson Monologue

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deaninmyjeans:

stateofutobitha:

cutely-perverted:

Sometimes I wonder how big my dick would be if I were a guy

so, here’s something. i found a calculator online to help you figure that out

my penis would have been tiny omg

Heh heh…

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ontheshipdestiel:

ndib:

agents-of-frickle-frackle:

hysteriffic:

earthseed-fic:

copperbadge:

agents-of-frickle-frackle:

*nick fury voice* phil i told you YOU CAN’T KEEP ADOPTING STRAY PEOPLE NO MATTER HOW ATTRACTIVE THEY MAY BE

Theoretically now there’s nothing to stop him.

His mid-life crisis Plane Of Hot Weirdos just became an entire International Espionage Organisation Of Hot Weirdos.

this made me giggle so hard

*spits water*

this post just hit nineteen thousand notes this morning

I still don’t understand what’s so funny

are there even nineteen thousand people in this fandom

?? ?

International Espionage Organization of Hot Weirdos.
I.E.O.H.W. Pronounced: Ow.

S.H.A.W.A.R.M.A.

Stray
Hot
Agents
With
A
Really
Magical
Airplane

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chocolateshoes:

nicolas-px:

Please mutual followers

PLEASE if you are gonna talk about episode 5 of twdg coming out tomorrow please tag it as ‘twdg spoilers’

pleasssssse 

THE LAST EP WAS RUINED FOR ME BECAUSE OF THIS, PLEEEASE TAG APPROPRIATELY

octoswan:

there’s a comic book store in my town that gives ladies a 10% discount and the people who work there are really friendly so lots of ladies show up to hang out and buy comics and one time i was looking through some new releases and this guy walked in, saw all the ladies, did a double take, and said really loudly and condescendingly, ‘there sure are a lot of girls in here for a comic store!’ and laughed but no one else laughed with him and it was glorious

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satincas:

I think we can add another human to the “extremely photogenic people” list
I mean, fuckk. who is this model that just walked into my coffee shop

Shit son, at first glance I thought that was Chris Pratt.

satincas:

I think we can add another human to the “extremely photogenic people” list

I mean, fuckk. who is this model that just walked into my coffee shop

Shit son, at first glance I thought that was Chris Pratt.

areyoutryingtodeduceme:

@AnthonyMackie: @ChrisEvans Challenge accepted! Sebastian and I nominate @realmichaelpena, @FindtheWalker and @jenniferkontax #ALS

THIS IS MY NEW FAVORITE

DORKS.  LOVE IT!!!!

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Reblog if you think bisexuality is a real sexuality

ohhowiloveunicorns:

I’m scared to come out as bi to my family in case they say it’s fake or I’m just confused so id love to have some people who agree with me so I can prove it

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This would be a fun island to be trapped on

Tick tock goes the clock.

This would be a fun island to be trapped on

Tick tock goes the clock.

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